Beyond the Campus

Oh…where to being this week. How about with famed gossip columnist for the NY Post, Cindy Adams, who, regarding the story of the NY1 reporter suing for sexual harassment, told women to just “deal with it.” Jezebel was one of many outlets to respond in outrage, noticing that Adams herself noted two instances of harassment in her own life: “The men who assaulted and/or harassed Adams when she was a child went unreported and unpunished; the laws we have today are intended simply to protect today’s girls and women from such crimes.”

But Adams wasn’t the only one to tell women to suck it up when it came to their own abuse. Fox News’ Megyn Kelly (also on my favorites list) emphasized on her show how women are running to the court rooms to report sexual harassment (if only it were actually true – like how Obama is our most progressive president and that health care reform is an abortioner’s dream). Jezebel, again, offered perspective: “The obsessive focus on the handful of women who do pursue that option suggests not that these people think the legal system is being abused, but that they ultimately think such behavior is acceptable.” Feministe came out with a great response about how victims of sexual abuse DO get over it, entitled “PTSD and Healing After Sexual Trauma.” But instead of just “walking away,” they explain the trauma of triggers and clinical treatment.

Now, onto Roethlisberger. Jezebel posted the 4 ways the cops ultimately failed the victim in this case: Sgt. Blash reportedly intimidated the alleged victim and tried to discourage her from filing charges; no one secured the crime scene; no one formally questioned Roethlisberger; and the police were cozy with Roethlisberger from the beginning. What is with the stars in all the authorities’ eyes about this guy that keeps them from doing their job? Jason Whitlock over at Fox Sports may at least admit that Roethlisberger did a dumb thing, but that doesn’t stop him from wholeheartedly blaming drunk sorority girls from getting raped in the first place: ”Statements made by drunken sorority girls are not facts. Statements made by sober sorority girls about an evening spent bar-hopping and drinking are not facts.” Say what you want about sorority girls, but are they not people too with the rights that all citizens have?

He also devalued the case by belittling words with quotation marks like “witnesses” and “evidence,” and brought in the victim’s own dress and behavior (hey, don’t we have a law protecting against that??) into consideration: “Big Ben’s accuser was allegedly wearing a name tag that read DTF — “down to f—.” She engaged in a lewd and highly flirtatious conversation with Roethlisberger.” And of course, relayed good ‘ol-fashioned advice for sorority girls everywhere: “Don’t drink the punch. It might be laced with a roofie” and ”Don’t go anywhere in the house alone.” And yet DOESN’T tell football players NOT TO RAPE. Amazing. Ms. Magazine attacked Whitlock’s “poor perception of humanity,” while Jezebel scolded NPR reporter Frank DeFord for making similarly outlandish remarks to “let the thugs play.” As Twitter user @DancingGrapes tweeted directly to NPR itself: “‘At some point don’t you just stop caring about whether athletes behave’?! NO especially when ‘behavior’ is really multiple RAPES.” Amen.

And now, onto the weekly games of Victim-Blaming 101 and Is it Sex or Is it Rape? First up, this headline from Daily Intel: “Jenna Jameson’s Husband Says It’s Her Fault He Got Arrested for Hitting Her” (pretty self-explanatory, I think). Then, Fox News used the dreaded quotation marks to describe an 11 year-old rape (guess where the quotation marks were??) victim, implying that a girl aged 10 is capable of consent (I’m guessing she’s not!!), and The Curvature reported on a devastating case (trigger warning) that was reported as “having sex” and not “rape.” Cara writes: “You cannot have sex with someone who is vomiting and drifting in and out of consciousness. You can only rape someone in that state. And yet, here they are, using the word sex. Minimizing.” And then there’s this frightening story of a date gone completely wrong when the man, after saying goodnight, broke into a woman’s hotel room and tried to rape her. What do we teach our men that this seems like perfectly acceptable behavior?

You know, every week I don’t think I’ll have enough ammo to write this post, and every week I’m unpleasantly surprised.

Amanda is the author of the blog The Undomestic Goddess.

Women’s Centers, Feminist Activism, and Funding: A Sad Story

The title of this article on the Daily Hampshire Gazette is a little misleading, I think— “Changing times: Pioneering women’s center at UMass struggles to stay vital,” implies that the center is having difficulty connecting to the student body because they are out of touch, or that the need for their services has dramatically decreased; that they have become irrelevant. On the contrary though, the article is actually a really sad tale about the lack of funding for women’s centers and how the Everywoman Center at UMass has been forced to cut back on their programming and has to rely on incredibly competitive grants to stay afloat. It’s a story that hits very close to home for SAFER, and I’m sure tons of other anti-VAW organizations and agencies across the country.

The Everywoman Center currently provides sexual assault crisis counselling and a rape crisis hotline to students and “the Hampshire County community at-large.” The sponsor special events like Take Back The Night and organize a Women of Color Network. They have a staff of five, but seem to be largely supported by a broad network of volunteers and interns. There hasn’t been a director for two years. They run on $600,000 a year.

This pales in comparison to the 1990s, when the center had 12 paid staff members and ran a comprehensive slate of programming, including a radio show, a newsletter, professional development programs, topic-based working groups, and a Poor Women’s Task Force. But over the last decade, their budget has been cut by 40%. Not that they’re alone—I doubt that Massachusetts is unique among other states in their funding predicaments:

The Everywoman’s Center operates on the margins at a time when about 2,500 sexual assaults are being reported annually to Massachusetts’ 17 rape crisis centers, according to Jane Doe Inc., a nonprofit fighting sexual and domestic violence. Meanwhile, financial support for rape crisis centers is shrinking. The state used $1.48 million in stimulus funding to offset a 24.6 percent, or $909,000, cut to public sexual assault and domestic violence services.

The number of sexual assaults alone proves how vital the services of the Everywoman Center, and it’s sister centers across the country, actually are, despite their limited funding. And while the article doesn’t give detail about the popularity of the center’s former robust programming, there is no evidence to suggest that programming fell off for any reason other than lack of funding. We work with campus women all the time—I can tell you that if you give them compelling programs, they will attend.

I think the initial reaction of many to an article like this would be something like “who needs women’s centers at universities when women are already exceeding men in admission and graduation rates? Clearly women are succeeding on their own just fine.” And I think there are two flaws with that argument. (Well actually there are a number of flaws that hinge on the assumption that college graduation is the grand indicator of “gender parity” and feminists should shut the hell up, but I’m not going to address this one here for lack of time, space, and energy.) The first is that no matter how well women are performing in higher education, sexual violence on college campuses—of which women are most often the victims—is by no means less of a problem and women’s centers have been integral to providing necessary related support and resources.

But for me that’s a given problem—when you cut funding from crisis support, people suffer. What’s a little less obvious perhaps is the issue of what the Gazette refers to as the loss of “programs that pushed for political change.” I’m not a historian of women’s centers so I can’t speak to the role they have played in campus activism or supporting minority groups, but the Everywoman Center certainly sounds like it had a pretty badass roster of programming in its day. I think the loss of this feminist-inspired activism is really notable and disheartening. It’s likely that some of what the women’s center used to sponsor has been taken up by student-run activist/identity organizations and that’s fine. But it means that the women’s center is left to be associated only with sexual violence and loses its connections to fighting other kinds of oppression/approaching other kinds of structural inequities. And I think that’s hurts women’s centers and campus-based feminism in general. Where once there was the possibility of forming really powerful alliances and tackling a number of social justice issues, the women’s center becomes “that place for rape survivors.” And while it’s beyond really important that “that place” exist, I think that mindset allows the concerns of women’s centers and feminism to be framed as very exclusive and defensive, as opposed to the really proactive, inclusive, social-justice oriented model of feminism that the women I know aspire to/buy into/want to be a part of. And I feel like that alienates a lot of progressive folks from each other, from feminism, and from caring about something like the existence and funding of women’s centers.

I suppose this is also sort of a long-winded way of reflecting on how difficult it is to get funding for activist-oriented projects or social justice work in general. It’s a constant struggle for SAFER (er, is it in poor taste to let you know you can donate?), and I know for all of our organizational peers as well. It’s funny—on a personal note, I’m about to start a degree this fall in public administration, basically marrying myself to the nonprofit world for the indefinite future. And no matter how committed to that and excited about it I am, I can’t help but think of how much of my life I am going to have to dedicate to fundraising and grantwriting and already feel really tired. And I don’t really have the knowledge yet to espouse some grand theory of an alternate funding system for social services and nonprofits—I’m still trying to figure out how the one we’re working in functions. But I just wanted to take a moment to reflect on part of what’s lost for “our movement” when places like the Everywoman Center have to drastically cut back, or an organization like the Pro-Choice Public Education Project has to shut down.

But now back to strategizing about positive change. See ya.

Wait! Two More Awesome NYC Events This Week…

All of these things going on! Gah!

Tomorrow at NYU, free and open to the public:

The Spring 2010 Pride in Practice Identity/Expression Education Series
with the Students of Color Collective
“Bias Crimes and Police Violence: Clinical And Community Responses for
LGBTQ People of Color”
Date:       Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Time:       7:00pm – 9:00pm
Location:  NYU Kimmel Center, 9th Floor
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=109569129081353
Learn About:
-Models that Challenge Violence Affecting LGBTQ People of Color
-Reclaiming Safety in Neighborhoods and Schools
-Counseling Services for Victims of Hate Violence and Police Misconduct
Introduction:
Alison Aldrich, Clinical Assistant Professor, NYU Silver School of Social Work
Guest Speakers:
Jarad Ringer, Anti-Violence Project;
Claudia Wald, Safe OUTside the System Collective;
Karrina Klaudio, GLOBE/Make the Road NY

And on Friday our dear friends and supporters at Third Wave are having a party and you’re invited. Individual tickets are only $10 bucks but go up to $25 tomorrow so get one today!!

Thrive: a celebration of feminist leadership and community.

We’re celebrating young feminist leadership and toasting community and the launch of our new website with a night of live drumming, dancing and conscious Hip Hop!

Come enjoy the igniting beats of DJ Laylo, performances by Lah Tere and live Latin Afrobeat drumming from Legacy Circle.

Join us for great food and cocktails and an iPod Touch Raffle!

After Party to follow at Southpaw!

hosted by:
Kyla Bender-Baird / Andrea Flynn / Jessica Holland / Carter Klenk / Darshan Khalsa / Keisha Phipps / Lisa Rast / Liza Siegler / Simone Sneed / Alexandra Teixeira / Melissa Thornton / Liz Zale

sponsored by:

Alan Stricoff / Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justice / Choice USA / Connie Cohrt / Manatt, Phelps & Phillips, LLP / Manning & Napier / Peter Cicchino Youth Project / Schall & Ashenfarb / Sistas on the Rise

Buy your tickets now on our website:
thirdwavefoundation.org

or email tara@thirdwavefoundation.org ($25 individuals, $10 til Tuesday / $75-$150 sponsors)

April 29: 5th Annual Jeanne Clery Lecture Series at Columbia/Barnard

One of our interns, Lauren, sent me an announcement from the NYC Alliance Against Sexual Assault about the below event up at Columbia this week:

Critical Beginnings: How Sex-Negative, Anti-Feminist Culture Sets Us Up for Violence

Organization: Barnard Columbia Rape Crisis Anti-Violence Support Center
Program: 5th Annual Jeanne Clery Lecture Series

Join us for a talk with sexuality educator, activist and filmmaker, Amy Jo Goddard, MA. In this critical look at how sex-negative, anti-feminist culture disempowers us all, this lecture will make a call to women and men to take steps that will empower and enable healthy, authentic sexuality and dismantle conditions that feed and support violence. Event is FREE and open to the public!

Date:
April 29, 2010

Time:
7pm to 8pm

Location:
Barnard College, Altschul Hall, Room 202

Public Transportation:
Local #1 train to 116th St./Columbia University. M4 bus or M104 bus to 116th Street.

For further information regarding this event, please contact La’Shawn Rivera by sending email to or by calling 212-854-4366.

File this under: things I deperately want to attend but can’t because I don’t have time. It does sound really interesting though. I have never heard of Amy Jo Goddard but it looks like she has some pretty amazing trainings and workshops for college students.

The Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Act of 2010

I haven’t gotten the chance to really look into this yet, but it sure does sound pretty awesome. Got this email last Friday from Advocates for Youth:

The Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Act of 2010

Today, Representative Yvette Clarke (D-11th NY) introduced a groundbreaking piece of legislation that would fundamentally transform U.S. foreign assistance policy regarding sexual and reproductive health.

The Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Act of 2010 (H.R. 5121) changes the way the U.S. does business abroad by calling for comprehensive sexual and reproductive health programs and a continuum of care that is responsive to the range of sexual and reproductive needs of young people and adults.

Click here to ask your Representative to co-sponsor the Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Act of 2010!

Since youth comprise nearly half of the world’s population, the reproductive and sexual health of these young people will affect the health and well being of this planet for decades.

H.R. 5121 includes a section specifically focused on the provision and promotion of sexual and reproductive health care for youth, including comprehensive sexuality education and youth involvement in program design and delivery.

We need your help to ensure that Congress understands the importance of promoting comprehensive sexual and reproductive health services around the globe.

Take action now and urge your Representative to become a co-sponsor of this historic piece of legislation.

In the coming months, Advocates for Youth will be working hard to bring the Global Sexual and Reproductive Health Act of 2010 to national attention — and to build support in Congress for its passage. Thank you for taking action!

Beyond the Campus

There’s updates galore on last week’s story of the NY1 reporter who sued for sexual harassment. First, NY1′s lawyers claimed the victim was “overreacting” to the nicknames (note: not identifying these terms as harassment), trying to pin the blame on her by saying she has a “narcissistic personality disorder.” At least Gothamist reports that “this seems to have little to do with any alleged sexual harassment.” NY1 then paid a psychologist to evaluate the victim, who came to the conclusion that she was suing “because she’s disappointed about her career” and that she never blamed herself (I’m sorry, I guess victims of harassment should ALWAYS think they were at fault first!). Also used as evidence during the trial was a videotape depicting a typical mic set-up set to a backdrop of porn music; however, in the court room, the music was edited out, leading the victim to shout out that the defense was lying and then “appeared to suffer an emotional meltdown on the witness stand.” Finally, a panel of 7 men and one woman (a jury of her peers???) decided that, nope, she wasn’t harassed after all. I mean, SHE even talked about her breasts – it wasn’t like she was trying to fit into a boys’ club or anything – she totally enjoyed the verbal abuse! Is this case closed?

Nike is continuing to use Ben Roethlisberger as their spokesperson, despite his rape charges, which the Times views as an affront to women: “What, exactly does it take for Nike to dump a jock? Dog-fighting will do it. After Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick pleaded guilty to running a felony dog-fighting ring, Nike took action. ‘We consider any cruelty to animals inhumane and unacceptable,’ the company said at the time. But cruelty to women is O.K.” The editorial describes the most recent assault as Roethlisberger forcing the young woman “to have sex,” which leads me to my next issue…

STOP CALLING RAPE “SEX.” The Curvature writes that a Northern Territory Justice attacked a newspaper for calling a teacher who raped his 13 year-old student exactly what he is – a rapist. “It has been determined in NT that minors under the age of 16 cannot consent to sex. And ‘sex’ without consent is … what exactly? Rape. Yes, yes, rape is the proper word.” In other horrifying underage-abuse, a Queens teacher was accused of abusing five of his female students over three years. If any good has come of this situation being made public, it’s that it has enabled others to break the silence of their own abuse: ‘As it was being spoken about, a student that was in the audience grabbed her mother and started crying and said that ‘this has happened to me as well.’”

Then there’s the infuriating notion of, well, she didn’t fight back, so it’s not rape (speaking of the case of Jack Tweed). Right, because if the victim knows that your buddy is standing guard at the door and there’s not much else she could do, it’s not like she has much of a choice. If anything, the situation could have become more violent. This is why I wholeheartedly embrace the idea of “Yes Means Yes“; it shouldn’t be that you do-everything-you-can-until-she-says-no, but don’t do ANYTHING unless you have enthusiastic participation. Unless of course, you’re into dom-sub stuff and have discussed a safe word beforehand and all. Because it shouldn’t be up to the woman to prevent a rape – and the notion of men-as-horndogs hurts men just as well, and creates a culture that turns men into rapists. You’d think that’d be common knowledge by this point, right?

Amanda is the author of the blog, The Undomestic Goddess.

Another Example Why We should Take Sexual Harassment Seriously

Marcella at abyss2hope shares us a story that takes place in Stroudsburg, PA, where a few women were able to stop a man trying to rape a woman nearby. Not only does this story highlight why we should take sexual harassment seriously, but also how invaluable it is to be a proactive bystander. If these women had ignored the calls of the victim, she almost certainly would have been more badly hurt.

Street harassment has long been an issue where people steadfastly may defend it as “harmless behaviour” while others firmly attest to its seriousness and validity as a violation. Just recently Sarah wrote about the recent sexual harassment at Ball State and how a Facebook page was created merely to make fun of the school for (rightly so) releasing an incident report about what happened. The Facebook page is a great example of the many sides of the arguments that arise when sexual harassment is discussed. The news report highlighted at MFMZ shows that the same attempted rapist was the man who committed sexual harassment earlier that evening.

They say it was the same man who was making unwanted advances towards them earlier in the night.

“Just by judging the back of the man I knew it was the guy that was following us at the bar.”

“He made me feel really uncomfortable. He made me feel really scared.”

I am a fan of Hollaback NYC’s stance of street harassment (emphasis mine):

Street harassment is one of the most pervasive forms of violence against women, and one of the least legislated against. Comments from “You’d look good on me” to groping, flashing or assault, are a daily, global reality for women and LGBTQ individuals. But, it’s rarely reported, it’s just culturally accepted as ‘the price you pay’. As a result, street harassment is invisible to policymakers and the public. This effective “OK’ing” of street harassment has deep impacts on all forms of gender based violence. If street harassment is OK, then groping is OK. If groping is OK, the beating is OK. If beating is OK, then rape is OK.

Sexual harassment is a type of sexual violence (it, too, is required by universities – and work places – to be prevented and rectified) and I believe there is a very slippery slope at play when we start to belittle some forms of sexual violence as “less serious” than others. I’m not saying that all sexual harassers are rapists, but in this particular case it is very obvious that this harasser was capable of rape. If society didn’t think of sexual harassment as something that one should just “put up with” perhaps this man wouldn’t have been able to follow the woman behind and try to rape her.

Sadly, the article ended with a bit of victim-blaming advice that almost all news stories have:

The women are relieved they were able to help… but say this should serve as a warning to others.

“You should definitely be accompanied when you’re walking alone. There’s no reason for you to go by yourself.”

I wish that we were okay with taking away the message that we should feel okay when someone makes us uncomfortable because they’re sexually harassing us. Instead of insisting only that women should travel in groups, we should be saying that people shouldn’t be trying to rape individuals who are out at night.

Society as a whole has a lot to be done in regards to attitudes about sexual violence. While it is great that these bystanders were able to jump in and save this woman, I think a lot that could have been taken from this message was missed. Marcella finished her blog post with a sentence that I thought was an extremely good point: “If we are serious about preventing the sex crimes that nobody mocks then we all need to be serious about opposing the unwanted sexual behaviors which are now too often mocked.”

Wanna Intern for SAFER this Summer?

Hi ya’ll. We are currently looking for one more summer intern (must be based in NYC). Check out the description and perhaps we’ll be seeing you soon…

SAFER offers a unique summer internship for college students/recent graduates who are passionate about the anti-sexual violence movement and interested in taking part in the behind-the-scenes of a volunteer-run nonprofit. SAFER is a volunteer collective, so your internship experience will not be traditional—we don’t go into the office every day and neither will you. Although we will be in constant communication and meet on a weekly basis, work will largely be done independently. Interns will gain experience in all parts of the organization’s work. Tasks will be varied, and may include:
  • Writing material for our online Activist Resource Center
  • Creating visual content for our online Activist Resource Center (applicants with a background in film and video editing encouraged to apply, or those who are willing to learn)
  • Assisting our Trainings Coordinator with curriculum revisions
  • Tracking media contacts and updating other contact lists as needed
  • Helping to plan a summer event
  • Writing for SAFER’s blog
  • Strategizing with us about how to creatively market our programming and preparing for our back-to-school outreach in the fall
  • Researching potential funders

Interns are expected to commit to 10 hours of work a week for 10 weeks. The internship is unpaid, but we do offer one need-based scholarship for $600 available for qualified students. If you’re interested in the Founders’ Scholarship, please note this in your cover letter and we will send you the scholarship application.

To apply, please send us your resume and a cover letter explaining your relevant work/volunteer experience and why you’re interested in SAFER.

Please send all information to Dan Wald at Dan AT safercampus DOT org

Last Minute Heads Up – Events in Brooklyn Tonight

It’s National Crime Victims’ Rights Week and there are two amazing events tonight for any NYC locals out there. I will be at both and plan to give you all a full report-back of what work is being done to end violence and support survivors in my fair city of Brooklyn.

The first is a collaborations of the Kings County District Attorney’s Office, in partnership with the Brooklyn Community Pride Center and the Brooklyn Borough President’s Office.  The info fair starts at 5pm, and the event starts at 7pm at Brooklyn Borough Hall, 209 Joralemon St.

The second is the first annual Brooklyn SAY SO (Sexual Assault Annual Speak Out) – just a few blocks away at the Callahan Center at St. Francis College (180 Remsen St.)  The event runs from 5-9pm and is co-sponsored by the NYC Alliance Against Sexual Assault and Safe Horizon.

Hope to see some of you there!

Youth Activism: It Totally Exists. On Its Own Terms. (And that’s fine)

So if you’re tuned into internet feminism, you’ve likely heard a lot this week about the Newsweek piece on the lack of youth activism in the reproductive rights movement. And you’ve also noticed the anger coming from a lot of awesome young women who are actually quite active on the issue. (Check out Shelby Knox’s twitter list of young feminists for more.)

Working for an organization that supports youth activism, I feel compelled to add some words to this debate, even if other folks have already said them and probably said them better. Although SAFER doesn’t work on the issue of abortion rights, we do position ourselves as part of a larger reproductive justice movement, and the students we work with are more often than not campus feminists who are also interested in repro rights issues. Also, I turn 25 next month, which I think probably puts me in the “young person” bracket still. So that said, here’s my very jumbled two cents (not necessarily the SAFER two cents):

The Newsweek piece and the comments from NARAL staff focus on the assumption that they are losing youth support because they have been unwilling to have an “open discussion about the moral, ethical, and emotional complexity of abortion that would be more likely to resonate with young Americans.” And there may be something to that—outside of the super-left feminist circles that I seem to run in, anyway. But while the piece talks about the struggle to mobilize young people who grew up in a post-Roe world, it ignores the issue of HOW to mobilize young people, period. And while changing the language around “complexity” might be part of that, I feel like it’s a really small part of the equation.

I think that what these larger, older organizations are really struggling with is not a lack of interest in the issue; it’s a lack of interest in them, both because they represent a certain type of feminism (the kind that chastises people for not supporting a female candidate just because she’s female, and the kind that have not been successful at incorporating the voices of women of color, queer and trans women, and low-income women) and because their activist strategies are simply no longer relevant to a lot of young folks.

Don’t get me wrong, I think there’s a lot of value in these big mother organizations. They have and produce amazing resources, and have done an amazing job of accruing lobbying power and making important inroads for women’s rights at the institutional level. But I think you can’t underestimate how much power young women have on their own these days, without paying their dues (literally and figuratively) to a NARAL or a NOW. You have a blog, you get connected to other women on the internet, you feel like you have a voice, are part of the conversation, all without leaving your computer. A lot of people might call this kind of individualized activism lazy and useless (or not activism at all). But I would encourage those people to think of it not as individual but as local—this kind of internet activism is important because it shows that feminist issues DO hit really close to home for a lot of young women. They are looking at their immediate worlds and speaking up when they don’t like what they see. And there is something powerful about that: I have (gasp!) never gone to a protest, but I have had countless conversations with friends and family members about why I care about the issues I’m passionate about and (however implicitly) why they should too. And isn’t that how we change the world at large? By starting at home?

I get a lot of emails from a lot of organizations asking for my money and telling me about federal legislation that I need to write letters about immediately. And, as someone who works in the nonprofit field, I get why that’s the way it needs to be. But I am so much more likely to go to the benefit for the repro justice organizations working hard, without much funding, in my own backyard. I am more likely to be concerned about how the women I know or see on the street everyday are or aren’t being supported. And yes, obviously whether or not Roe v. Wade gets overturned has a huge impact on them too, but that’s just not all I’m thinking about because it doesn’t reflect the realities of what I see around me all the time.

Not every organization can be everything to all people. I mean, SAFER couldn’t be any more niche, so I get that. But if you want to be a national organization that gets youth support, besides actually “sharing power” and actually talking to young women about how they would like to be more involved (as the bloggers I linked to above have covered) I think you also need figure out how to make yourself relevant at the local level. What can your potential supporters do besides writing a letter to their congressperson or sending you a check? What’s going on around them that you should care about too? How do you frame the conversation about repro rights so that it’s more inclusive of issues besides abortion access for women who can already afford health care? How do you leverage the huge internet presence your issue has that simply isn’t affiliated with your own organization? Easier said than done with limited resources and huge staffs that need to get paid, I know….but. If you want nuance, move in this direction, not about the complexities of abortion. I think that’s what will feel more relevant.

If I can use SAFER as an example, not because I think we’re the best model (we’re not, we’re a volunteer collective, and generally just completely different animal here), but because it illustrates my point: SAFER’s founders were very clear about the role that the organization would play in campus organizing: a very small one. The goal was to support activism that arose organically on a campus, to arm students with strategies that would help them achieve success on their own terms, the idea being that every campus is different, and a sexual assault policy should be written to reflect the culture/needs/demographics of that specific campus. Although SAFER has guidelines for what makes a good policy, and requires that the activists we work with spend some time reflecting on issues of intersectionality and how sexual assault interacts with other oppressions on their campus, we NEVER write the policy for them, or tell students explicitly how they need to run their campaign. I really appreciate this approach. I think it helps turn young folks into the kind of leaders they want to be.

So you know that young people are interested in the issue because that’s what the polls tell you. But they’re not active in the ways you would like to see them be? Seems like it’s time to find out what they are doing, and what kinds of support they could use in doing it, or how they could take it to the next level. Different “generations” of women are clearly going to have different tools, strategies, priorities. The Newsweek piece seems to make it clear that the job here for older feminists is actually figuring out what those are for young women who care about repro rights. It shouldn’t have to be the young womens’  responsibility to come to you, especially if it hasn’t been made effectively clear to them why they need you in the first place. This doesn’t mean sending frantic emails about legislation changes. It means talking for real about how a movement works, how to be diverse without being divided, and how to meet each other in the middle.

[p.s. This isn't to say that youth activism is all online, or that all young folks do is sit around talk. That's far from true, as all of the students we know who are trying to change campus policy as we speak can prove. I just think it's hard to deny how the internet has changed feminist activism...]